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Jannette & Paul
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<h2 class="elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large">OUR STORY</h2> </div>
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<div class="bb-theme-elementor-wrap bb-elementor-custom-family bb-elementor-custom-size bb-elementor-custom-line-height"> <p>Paul and I met on a snowboarding trip in <strong>Japan.</strong> It was not planned by our friends to be our<strong> matchmaker</strong>, but we had mutual friends from each other’s party with no intention of anyone having <strong>sparks flying.</strong> When we first met at Paul’s cabin he was staying at with his group, we <strong>hit it off </strong>and we are so glad we are still friends with those who were on the trip with us in 2015. It was a huge meet up of 3 different groups so for us to <strong>naturally gravitate</strong> to each other and hit it off was rare and quite <strong>serendipitous</strong>. We kept in touch and didn’t start dating until a year later. It was strange to start dating someone from California and I was living in Texas. We started off <strong>long distance</strong>, and then eventually I moved out to California to be with him. We only lasted a year in California, and then a job offer brought us to<strong> Denver</strong>. We have been here since and love it since we love the outdoors and our<strong> son</strong>, Ethan does too. We married in 2019 and had Ethan in 2020. It worked out that Paul and I both knew we wanted kids. That’s was just both of our expectations and I’m glad we were on the same page.</p> </div> </div>
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<h2 class="elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large">Our Interests</h2> </div>
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<div class="bb-theme-elementor-wrap bb-elementor-custom-color bb-elementor-custom-family bb-elementor-custom-size"> <p>Paul and I share the<strong> same hobbies </strong>and interests in hiking, snowboarding, and mountain biking. We enjoy<strong> watching sports together</strong> – basketball, football, and baseball. We don’t expect our kids to be competitive in our hobbies, but also find an interest in them. Jannette also has interests in <strong>rock climbing</strong> and scuba diving.</p> </div> </div>
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<h2 class="elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large">What led us to Surrogacy</h2> </div>
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<div class="bb-theme-elementor-wrap bb-elementor-custom-family bb-elementor-custom-size bb-elementor-custom-line-height"> <p>I have a lot of issues with my<strong> reproductive</strong> organs. It started out with <strong>Endometriosis</strong> in my 20s. On top of that, I started to have re-occurring fibroids. The fibroids make getting pregnant <strong>very difficult</strong>. Fast forward to 2020, I had a complicated pregnancy, with my son, where my<strong> water broke at 26 weeks </strong>pregnant and I had to live in the hospital during covid, for 2 months. It’s honestly a <strong>miracle</strong> that I stayed pregnant that long while living in the depressing hospital and I couldn’t have visitors because it was during <strong>covid.</strong> After having my son, I got my <strong>fibroids removed</strong>, but then had <strong>other complications</strong> come up when we tried to get pregnant 1.5 years later, in middle of 2022. During my doctor visit, when I tried to figure out my issues in trying to get pregnant, I found out I had<strong> adenomyosis spreading in my uterus.</strong> At the same time fibroids keep reoccurring in my uterus that I had a few<strong> myomectomies</strong> (laproscopic and hysteroscopic) during the time we were <strong>trying to get pregnant.</strong> On top of that, I have a blocked fallopian tube that is causing hydrasalpinx, which is very bad for the <strong>embryo</strong>. It’s so many issues, but the adenomyosis is what was the main reason that <strong>I cannot carry</strong> my own child. It would cause more issues for the embryo to implant and grow in a healthy way. I was so <strong>devastated </strong>by the news, but feel <strong>so much hope</strong> that there is another a way to have a baby and that’s through <strong>surrogacy</strong>. We took the news very hard, but moved <strong>forward </strong>with IVF and getting our egg retrieval done.</p> </div> </div>
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<h2 class="elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large">Our Hopes & Dreams for Our Future Child</h2> </div>
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<div class="bb-theme-elementor-wrap bb-elementor-custom-family bb-elementor-custom-size bb-elementor-custom-line-height"> <p>I want my child to know they are <strong>loved </strong>and to know mom and dad love them so much. We want to give them the <strong>opportunities</strong> we didn’t have, since we did not grow up with a lot of opportunities. Our parents were <strong>immigrants</strong> so they worked hard to get us what they could. We <strong>hope</strong> our children can <strong>thrive</strong> in the community we try to grow for them and to be the <strong>change</strong> they want to see in the world.</p> </div> </div>
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<h2 class="elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large">FAMILY TRADITIONS AND VALUES</h2> </div>
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<div class="bb-theme-elementor-wrap bb-elementor-custom-color bb-elementor-custom-family bb-elementor-custom-size"> <p>To be an <strong>empathetic </strong>and <strong>caring </strong>person to those around them. To know the values we <strong>instilled </strong>by our actions. That we never take for <strong>granted </strong>the <strong>blessings </strong>we have received and never felt entitled to. I can’t say that we have a special tradition. We are <strong>hospitable </strong>and <strong>generous </strong>with our <strong>community </strong>and hope our children will be that way too.</p> </div> </div>
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<h2 class="elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large">What we are looking for in a Match</h2> </div>
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<div class="bb-theme-elementor-wrap bb-elementor-custom-color bb-elementor-custom-family bb-elementor-custom-size"> <p>I would <strong>love </strong>as much contact as a GC would be open to. Essentially, I would want our GC to be <strong>extended family</strong> long- term so my future child knows the person who carried them. At minimum, I would like to attend milestone appointments and for my husband and I to be part of the delivery.</p> </div> </div>
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<div class="bb-theme-elementor-wrap bb-elementor-custom-color bb-elementor-custom-family bb-elementor-custom-size"> <ul><li><h4><strong>Names: Jannette & Paul </strong></h4></li><li><h4><strong>Location:</strong> Denver, CO</h4></li><li><h4><strong>Number of embryos: 4 PGS Tested</strong></h4></li><li><h4><strong>Agency/Management Team: The Biggest Ask</strong></h4></li><li><h4><strong>Fertility Clinic: CCRM Denver </strong></h4></li><li><h4><strong>Surrogate Compensation: Medium/High</strong></h4></li><li><strong>Requirements: Must fulfill ASRM guidelines, must be willing to get the TDAP vaccine during pregnancy.</strong></li></ul> </div> </div>
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